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Joseph Ralph posted a condolence
Sunday, December 24, 2017Dear Jane and family, I’m so saddened to hear of the news of Harky’s passing. I realize your family has suffered great tragedy these last few years, and I pray for your healing. I always had a great respect for Harky. He was a man with an incredible work ethic, a man of high moral integrity, a tremendous aptitude for business, and someone who always treated people fairly. I am grateful for the employment he provided for my Dad over the course of all of those years, as well as the wonderful retirement party that he and the company hosted in his honor. I am grateful to Harky for the employment he provided me at a very young age and throughout my teenage years so that I would have spending money in my pocket. Jobs were extremely tough to come by in Boonville in those days and Harky went out of his way to offer me a position of trust. I tell stories often throughout my life of my early years in the dairy. You would be absolutely amazed at how people find these stories to be of great interest. They always want to know the magic behind making ice cream and what it means to homogenize and pasteurize milk. While in upstate New York, nearly everybody is familiar with the process, very few in Southern California are equally as aware. Believe me when I tell you that many of the management traits I exercised as a first and second line supervisor throughout my own career, I inherited from working under Harky. I learned the value of honesty, hard work, integrity, and the difference between what’s right and what’s wrong, and most of all, the value of taking responsibility for one’s own actions. Harky was always engaged in several tasks simultaneously and did not often care for sitting around wasting time. However, when ever I, or any of the employees at Mercer‘s, had come upon a problem, Harky would always listen and selflessly dispense his wisdom immediately to correct the problem, whether it was personal or professional. He was always quick with a good answer, which always gave us confidence in his leadership as the captain behind the helm of Mercer’s Dairy. Harky will always be remembered for having been a citizen of his community, in every sense of the word. Harlen Bellinger has been, is now, and will forever be an iconic name in upstate New York. A consummate professional businessman, a successful entrepreneur, a man with a sense of duty and commitment to his community, and most importantly, a good husband to his wife and a good father to his cildren. Today, I honor your husband and your Dad, Harlen K. Bellinger. I tear up as I write this because of the profound respect I have always had for Harky. The world is a different place now, without his presence. I know Harkey was a man of faith so I say the Catholic prayer for the repose of his soul, in Jesus name, I pray for the eternal rest of Harlan Bellinger, that he knows the Lord, and that you, Lord, will have mercy on him and bring him into Your eternal presence, so that he may know Your eternal joy, oh Lord, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, amen. Peace be with you all during this difficult time. Joe & Annie Ralph
Bill Britt posted a condolence
Saturday, December 23, 2017Condolences to Harky's family. My Dad was a good friend of Harky and always spoke very highly of him. My Dad was also a businessman in Whitesboro and they "talked dairy" when they got together.. May the Lord be with you, Bill, Nannette and Bonnie Britt
Rick & Michelle Dale posted a condolence
Saturday, December 23, 2017So very Sorry to hear of Harky's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this sad time. Rick and Michelle Dale
Sally Black, Jo Kraeger posted a condolence
Friday, December 22, 2017Dear Jane and Family, Our family is sincerely sorry for your loss. Mom knew she couldn't get out to see you in this weather but wanted you to know she's thinking about you. We have wonderful memories of good times with Harkey, he was a great man and a good friend. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Fritz Scherz posted a condolence
Friday, December 22, 2017Deepest condolences to Harky's family and friends. The photo of him and my Dad on their motorcycles hangs in my dining room as a tribute to two great men!
Stanley and crystal jones posted a condolence
Friday, December 22, 2017So sorry to hear of Harky's passing he was a wonderful man he will be missed. Our prayers are with you.
Irene Foote Williams posted a condolence
Friday, December 22, 2017So sorry to here of Harland passing what a great story of his life My thoughts are with you
Julie Hawes Chrysler posted a condolence
Friday, December 22, 2017Dear Bellinger Family, Although I didn't know your dad personally, my folks always spoke highly of him and what a sweet man he was! May you hold your memories close to your heart. and know we are thinking of you. Hawes/Chrysler Family
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Friday, December 22, 2017
Curt grenier posted a condolence
Friday, December 22, 2017So sorry to hear of Harky's passing. He gave me my first job back in 1979 and taught me so much not just about business, but life. To treat people the same way you want to be be treated. Fairly and with compassion. The whole area feels your loss. God bless. Curt. P.S., he had the best bowling bag I ever saw, his 5 gal pail!
Linda Jones posted a condolence
Thursday, December 21, 2017I am so sorry to hear this sad news, one of my favorite memories of going to NY was knowing Uncle Harkey would load up our coolers for a 12 hour ride home with ice cream. He and Jane will always be in my heart. Love and prayers to all the family
Melissa Harlan posted a condolence
Thursday, December 21, 2017I'm so very sorry that we couldn't make it you all will be in my heart lots of love and prayers for many days to come will cherish every memory that we had together never forget what a wonderful uncle he was to me with all of the love he showed me and when we got to New York every summer couldn't wait to go to uncle Harkey and aunts Janes house!! Love you all wished we could be there to comfort you all!!
JAMES and Donna Moon posted a condolence
Thursday, December 21, 2017We are very sorry to hear of Harky''s passing. He was a wonderful and very caring person
Lisa Pond Penczek posted a condolence
Thursday, December 21, 2017So sorry to hear of Mr. bellinger's passing. He was a wonderful man. Some of my best memories from childhood include him and his family. My heart goes out to the family.
Sheila Harris posted a condolence
Thursday, December 21, 2017Harky will be surely missed, we had a lot of fun , him and Jane and I , at the Boonville Fair Office, for many years while I worked with them. He will be forever in my heart, prayers to Jane and the family for your loss of a great husband, father, brother, uncle and our community. Gods blessings with you Jane as you go through this most difficult time. Hugs to you. Love Sheila
Bill & Lori Wagoner posted a condolence
Thursday, December 21, 2017All of our thoughts and prayers are with Jane and the Bellinger family. Harkey will be missed.
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Thursday, December 21, 2017